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We all have goals in life that we wish to achieve. Some of us have the ability to achieve those goals more easily than others. You might ask, "How so?" The key to achieving those goals is prioritizing and setting up a plan of action. In this blog, I am going to share my secret to achieving my goals. Success begins with writing down your goals in a notebook or journal.
I'm obsessed with setting goals and smashing them.
One of the things I’ve been very open about in my videos and podcasts is creating a plan for your self-development, your business, and your life goals. We get ahead in life when we understand where we are heading and what we want to achieve. Everything else is a task and journey that helps us get there. Some are fortunate enough to achieve their goals within a month or a year, while for others, it may take a couple of years to taste the pie of success. However, there are those who live a lifetime without ever reaching it. You may ask, "Why?" There are many factors and circumstances that come into play in order to get there. In this article, I will be sharing personal tactics and principles with best practices to help you achieve your goals. Every small win counts — that’s how you build a solid foundation, one brick at a time. So, shall we start?
BABY WRITE ALL DOWN LIKE IT MEANT TO BE!
The things I am doing today were once goals I wrote down as wishful thinking. Now, they are part of my reality. Writing this blog, for example, was just an idea that turned into a goal and has now become part of my everyday action plan to write and share knowledge with my audience. Four years ago, I decided to go back to school to learn digital marketing, and a year later, I completed my education in marketing and left my job at a fitness studio to pursue digital marketing. Today, just a week away from celebrating my one-year anniversary since leaving that job, I can proudly say that I am officially a digital marketer in the field.
Overcoming Doubt and Negative Beliefs to Achieve Your Dream
Do you sometimes need to go a little deeper to understand yourself and why you're feeling the way you do? Why are you doubting your ability to do certain things that will get you where you need to be in life? Are you the first one in your family to pursue this journey? Could this be linked to childhood trauma, not having support, or low self-esteem? Once you understand the roots of your doubts and negativity, you can begin feeding your self-esteem with new, empowering ideas. The moment you break that pattern, you free yourself from worries and old stories.
My advice would be to start listening to podcasts from influential individuals such as Eric Thomas, Les Brown, or Sarah Jakes Roberts. You can get a copy of their books from the library or listen to the audio versions on YouTube in the future. Here are a few books I recommend:
NO PAINS NO GAINS
SELF DISCIPLE IS A MUST HONEY!
Baby, you’ve got to do the work! There’s no such thing as a shortcut to success or a quick gimmick. You’re not running a multi-level marketing scheme for your life. Success requires effort, dedication, and time — and there's no way around that.
PRACTICE PATIENCE & GAURDTTIDUE
You have to learn to practice patience. Success does not come overnight. You must ensure that you are planting your seeds, watering them, and waiting for the right season to harvest. Some people who are doing the same thing as you might achieve success or recognition quicker, and that can be the hardest pill to swallow. But you must learn to celebrate them as you wait for your turn. When your time comes, it will be worth it. You will appreciate every effort put in to achieve it.
In the end, we can write our own story about how we want every day to unfold. Affirm this daily: "I will win. I claim success in my life. I am talented, gifted, and highly favoured.
CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN A MONTH WITH THESE 7 TACTICS:
A few weeks ago, I covered a post on the topic of "7 Tactics to Help Change Your Life in 30 Days," primarily focusing on the financial aspect of your life. I encourage you to watch the video below.
Mindful friends in your circle
To get to where you want to be in life, it will require some subtraction and addition in your circle. The friends in your circle should have the same goals, ambitions, and be goal-oriented individuals and dream chasers. As the saying goes, "Show me your friends, and I will show you who you are!" If you're happy with your current circle, that's great, but if their toxicity isn't healthy for you, you have to be okay with walking away. If you constantly bring your ideas to them and they only laugh or judge instead of offering constructive criticism, it's time to move on. You need to exist in peace, and you have to learn to love them from a distance.
BUST YOUR STEREO WITH POSITIVE MUSIC
Music is a universal language that unites us all. It has the ability to bring back memories, create new experiences, and impact our emotions. Music can motivate and encourage you! I highly recommend that, in your free time, you listen to powerful music or gospel songs. They can uplift your spirit and provide the positive energy you need to keep moving forward.
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